An "Active Listening" exercise during the LISC Chicago Business District Leadership retreat |
Two years of planning is finally realized! The first LISC Chicago
Business District Leadership Retreat is well underway. This program is an
outgrowth of the Coro Neighborhood Leadership Program in New York – now in its fifth
year. These programs are truly groundbreaking - they seek to provide leadership
and skills training for a cohort of twenty commercial district practitioners
annually. This is not your typical training program folks. These individuals
were competitively selected and use the six month training program to hone the
skills that they need to make their work productive. Today we are tackling
active listening. When our masterful facilitator, Jose Acevedo, asked the
co-hort this morning “how many of you depend on people over whom you have no
authority to be successful at your job?” every hand shot up. That is inherent
in this work. The property owners, the business owners, the political leaders, the community leaders and the funders who are our partners are not staff. They are not
people who are paid by us and whose performance review is based on how well
they execute exactly what we want. How many of you have faced the challenge of
a recalcitrant property owner – someone who seems reticent to participate in
your commercial revitalization efforts – yet controls a critical and visible
property in your district? Or the business owners who bristle at your efforts
to improve the district and refuse to engage?
Jose made the powerful point that building relationships
with those individuals begin by actively listening to them. But what really is “active
listening”? This is the definition we are using here: “ATTENDING carefully to
what another person says, means, intends and feels and RESPONDING in a way that
lets them know they are heard and understood.” The key here is that active
listening requires two steps. First, listening. And next, talking to
demonstrate that you have an understanding of what the other person said. That
simple, very generous act builds the foundation for a relationship based on
mutual understanding.
So go ahead and active listen today!
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